Scarves Are Perfect for Kinky Sex

Scarves are one fashion item I love a lot. For some reasons, these light pieces are the best friend a girl can ever have when it comes to fashion.

They come in handy when your hair is a mess; they work as excellent neck pieces, and what else? They can be used as sex equipment too. Oh yes! I bet you didn’t know they can be that useful.

So let’s talk about bondage sex. Other people think you need some high tech equipment to engage in bondage sex. However, some simple wardrobe supplies would go a long way in giving you the results you desire.

Meaning, you don’t have to break a bank so that you can purchase supplies from a sex toy shop. Your socks, scarfs, and match anything you can wrap around your hand without hurting yourself or shopping your skin is great for the action.

When it comes to engaging in BDSM, most of the supplies you need are lying around your house. Things like your chair, your toilet seat your bandana, panties, scarves, and a host of other things can make your BDSM dreams come true. Before you engage in bondage sex, there are a few things we need to set straight.

1. Discuss what your boundaries are

Finding out if your partner is comfy with what you’re about to suggest is very important.

Which of you would be willing to be tied down or tied up, what you’ll be comfortable with when it comes to sexual activities in that position and what you would not tolerate, you also need to pick a safe word that would come in handy when you’re beginning to feel uncomfortable or having any pains, and more importantly if you’re under any pressure make sure your partner is aware of it.

Focus on your partner’s body language while you are in the act, and once you notice any signs of discomfort, make sure to ask them how they’re doing just to be sure crossed the boundaries, and everybody is happy.

Finally, remember to make sure you tie your partner loosely so that their blood flow is not interrupted and you don’t end up hurting them.

The idea of engaging in this practice with your partner is to create a very erotic atmosphere and enjoy sex in the kinkiest way possible without going too far. Don’t worry about whether or not you can easily worm your way out of the bondage, just enjoy your time with your partner.

Here are the sex positions

1. Conquistador

If you are a beginner in bondage sex, missionary position is perfect for you because it is very easy and stress-free. Lie down with your back on the bed, spread your legs and put both hands above your head, so that’s your partner can easily tie your hands together to the head of the bed.

Once your hands a nice sleep tight to the pop out of the bed frame your partner can proceed to tie your legs to the lower part of the bed frame.

You could use under the bed restraint system like Sport sheets if you do not want to make use of a scarf. Under the bed restraint, systems make it is easy for you to free yourself from the cuff in case you feel uncomfortable and decide to pull out at any point.

2. Cowgirl

Cowgirl is a very lovely sex position because it puts the female in charge. And when it comes to having kinky sex, this position is also one to consider.

All you have to do is make your partner lie down with his back on the bed and tie his hands to the bed frame as well as is legs either tied together or separately just as described in the missionary position above. Then proceed to mount your partner and take charge of the cause of action.

The beautiful part of having your partner bond when engaging in the cowgirl position is that he doesn’t stop you with his hands, you get to continue for as long as you want and you get to do anything you like. You could switch things up and give him a blow job just to increase the pleasure.

3. The leapfrog

The leapfrog

If you love being blindfolded just as much as I do, then this position is perfect for you. To engage in the leapfrog position, lie down flat on the bed or whatever surface you’re having sex on and have your partner bind your hands together above your head.

Have your partner blindfold you with a scarf and lift your waist high enough so he can slide into your vagina from the rear. Let your shoulders remain down and your knees firmly rooted on the surface as he thrusts back and forth.

4. Rear entry standing position

I like to call this one the standing doggy style. Stand up straight then bend so that your fingers touch your toes. Remain in that posture then take both hands to your back and let them sit directly on top of your hips.

Have your partner tie you up in that position, making sure that you are balanced, then he can enter you from behind. You can make use of a dildo or a vibrator to increase clitoral stimulation.

This position is terrific because it tests your strength and what better way to punish a naughty lover than have them tied up and bent till they feel the sweet pain you are dishing and they learn a lesson?

5. Seated rear entryThe hot seat

This is another kinky sex position that puts the woman in charge. And why this one is special is because it is super comfortable for both of you.

Make your partner sit on a chair with a backrest, then tie their ankles and wrists to the frame of the chair. Give your partner a nice blowjob to get him erect and ready to go then you can sit facing him or backing him then do an up and down movement on his penis.

In the five positions, we have explored above; you notice that the humble scarf has worked as a restraint, handcuffs, and a blindfold. However, that’s not all the scarf can do for you. Have you thought about using your scarf to make collars?

Well, you could tie a scarf around your partner’s neck (not too tight though) and make them call you names because you’re playing the role of the dominant. Also if you feel the need to reduce the noise, you could tie your partner’s mouth with a scarf so that when they moan, it’s for your listening pleasure only.

Remember to use the scarf carefully. Never tie your partner too tight or make them feel uncomfortable. If you’re the one getting tied, make sure to use your safe word if you feel your partner is going too far. Sex is meant to be pleasurable and not designed to kill you. Have fun with the scarf!

Emmanuella Ekokotu
Ekokotu Emmanuella is a sociologist and Anthropologist, writer, and fashion model who lives in Benin city, Edo state,Nigeria.

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